We Have to Start Somewhere

Hi, my name is Destiny. I am just a regular girl, who wants people to know that it is okay to be a hot mess sometimes. As you go on with your day, just know that you are constantly becoming better. You're at your best right now, and tomorrow you will be better. "Optimism is... Continue Reading →

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What I Learned

It is that time of the year!!! My girls are all back to school, and I am sadder than I expected.  All summer I couldn't wait for them to get back to school, the countdown was on the minute school was out. Summer was a crazy time, and a busy time; it didn't leave me... Continue Reading →

New Posts To Come

Hey y'all! I'm on vacation right now, but I promise you when I get back there will be new posts!!! I have tons of things to write about, along with lots of lessons I've learned on vacation! Can't wait to tell y'all about it all!


Y'all. . . life ever just shove your face in the dirt? If you said no then you're one lucky banana. When this happens what do you do? Do you keep on trucking? Do you wallow in self pity? Tell me! I want to know. Talk to me y'all. I will tell you what I... Continue Reading →

Be You

Be yourself. Why go day to day constantly worrying what others think of you? Chances are you will never see those people again. I always care about what people think about me. I am in constant fear of being judged. It got to the point to where I would tell the people I was with... Continue Reading →

Big Decisions

Hi friends! I recently decided to lose weight. I am not losing weight because I want to look better, because honestly I am happy with how I look. I decided to lose weight to better my health. June 2017 I weighed 258 pounds, and I am 5'6". I did not know how unhealthy it was... Continue Reading →

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